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Friday, December 4, 2020

PANDEMIC 2020

Wow. What a year, eh? But you knew that already. 

Here's an overview of our year. It won't take long. We didn't go far!

We did visit the mountains in February with our friends the Aakkos. Eric and Erik got to do some cross-country skiing there in Rocky Mountain National Park which is always fun. Erik and Eric also went on a hut-to-hut ski trip in Feb (that's like backpacking on skis, except instead of a tent, it's a really nice log cabin with real mattresses and cook stoves!). 



In mid-March, I (Erik) went down to Tennessee to do some flooring work on our short term rental property there. Between when I left Denver and when I returned, almost everything changed. That's when 2020 really kicked into gear for us too. 

Travel and vacation plans got shelved. Visits got postponed, and even simple things like going out to lunch with friends was impacted. That was only the beginning. 
Covid Home Haircut

When the US hoarded toilet paper

Finn and Aubrey's schools switched to online learning. Finn loved it and thrived with the ability to work at his own pace (fast). Aubrey is more social and it was much harder for her. Besides, as a high school senior, her classes are substantially more challenging than Finn's 6th grade subjects ;-). As a senior, Aubrey has begun checking out colleges. She gets more mail than we do these days from colleges near and far trying to recruit her. She's visited Union College (with Mom last spring) and Southern Adventist University (with dad this fall). No decision yet there. Yes, Gelerie and I have fond memories of Union College and think highly of it now, but we're leaving the choice to Aubrey. 

January, Finn's 11th Birthday!

August, Aubrey's 17th Birthday!

Gelerie had about a month of days off (unpaid) because of shutdown, and when there was work, there was very little of it because nearly all non-emergency surgeries were cancelled. Yes, she did have to intubate COVID patients. It is unsettling to launch a human into an intubated semi-coma so that they can fight for their lives with the help of a machine -- especially when they are a decade younger than us and were healthy till that point. As of now, she is back at work almost close to her normal 60% time (which is still about 30 hours/week). She has to wear an N-95 mask and face shield all day, every day. On arrival at home, she changes and showers immediately.

For those still wondering if the pandemic is real: yes it is. She's been a doctor for 21 years and been through 21 flu seasons. This is not "like the flu"; it is not a hoax. 


Erik's work has all but disappeared. There is one client I still serve by doing a production once every other month. But other than that, my photo & video work has gone to about 5% of what it was. It wasn't even this bad in 2008-9. It was in the last recession of 2009-11 that we bought rental properties and I began rehabbing them.

In the spring of this year, I sat and took a hard look at the viability of photo/ video work in slow economic times and made a decision: I'm going to lean into real estate investing hard. Yes. I will continue to serve existing clients or new ones that fit my skillset (one acquires skills and gear in 24 years). But my time this year has been spent studying for my real estate license exam, analyzing potential investments, reading, and networking. This represents a major shift in focus for me and is not something that will end when the pandemic turns a corner. You can follow my journey on Instagram at @reiforthewin (rei = Real Estate Investing).

Our short term rentals took a major hit in the spring, then rebounded well over the summer and fall. Long-term rentals are holding on ok. Grand Lake area was devastated by the 2nd largest Colorado fire in history (193,812 acre fire). We are very fortunate that our houses were not damaged. The fires got to within 1/4 mile of our properties. 

What does 2021 have in store? All we can say for sure is that we for sure do not know. We know how it ALL ends (see Revelation 21 for that). But between then and now, so many unknowns. 

This has been a watershed year for us in many ways. Not just shifting how school works, losing work, refocusing careers, but also in our personal journey. We've seen things in our country, friends, and faith community we thought we'd never see. Some of them good things, some of them not. 

We have chosen to seek an even deeper, more personal relationship with Jesus through all this. We believe that's the only trustworthy bearing for navigation. We invite you to a deeper personal relationship with Him too. If you don't know where to start, the book of John is a great one to see how God works relationally. Watch how Jesus interacts with people. If you'd like to see what God's idea of a kingdom looks like, the book of Matthew paints an amazing contrast between His kingdom and the kingdoms we think of and champion. 

We cannot wait to re-connect with our friends again. Literally. We can not wait. Why wait? Drop us a line or call! 



Other highlights this year.

Gelerie hit her half century mark!

Gelerie's Birthday Week spent in Grand Lake, Colorado

Plenty of the outdoors to socially distance.


Moose on East Inlet Trail, Grand Lake

Online Song Service and Sermon-- We sing at 7:23 and at the end of Erik's Message

Erik perfecting his homemade Pizza
Erik Tossing Dough for Pizza

Gelerie trying to perfect macarons

Upcycled Cashmere Sweater Blanket made by Gelerie










Friday, November 29, 2019

2019 Christmas Card and Year Highlights!

Whew! What a year! 

We worked through four Real Estate deals (more sales than purchases). 

We played hooky the entire month of June and drove ≈4000 miles through Wyoming, Utah, Nevada, California, Oregon, Washington, Canada, Montana, Wyoming and then to home -- and we did it all while living in our 15-foot-long VW Vanagon. Highlights are on instagram under the hashtag #northwestloop2019

Then we hosted family from California and spent a fantastic week in Grand Lake, Colo. 

Then there was the International Pathfinder Camporee where Erik worked making the Day in Review videos for screening each night. Finn went on that adventure and stayed with Aunt Rikki and cousins Elise and Elliot. 

Everybody's health is good. Gelerie celebrated with Erik her 5 year milestone for breast cancer post diagnosis and surgery with a summit on Mt. Quandary (14,265 ft elevation) Work is … work, but good. And school keeps Aubrey and Finn busy (11th and 5th grade, respectively). 

This year's card holds some elements of truth… and some total fiction. Erik and Gelerie really *did* try a 100% plant-based diet all through October after watching the documentary "The Game Changers" (now on Netflix) about vegan athletes and the benefits of eating plant-based. We did it for a month and it went really well. As a result, we are beginning to lean more toward plant-based eating, but are still "flexitarians" as of now. Gelerie is not selling MLM soap. Sadly, that means you cannot become a distributor. Aubrey really IS into music… but more along the lines of honor choir at school and worship music at church (she's not really as pictured in our card). Finn… well, we didn't have to buy any props for him this year. He's active for sure, but he's also become a great reader and is doing well in school. 







We continue the insanity of our annual family Christmas card as much for ourselves as for our friends and family. Why? Because real life has plenty of sadness, challenges, and regular ol' work. We do not find our hope in politics or even a diet. Our hope is solidly in the Gospel and person of Jesus (same thing!). However your 2019 was, we wish you the best of 2020. 


Yosemite National Park

Humboldt Redwood State Park

Moran State Park, Orcas Island

Bertha Lake Hike, Waterton Lakes National Park

Yellowstone National Park


Moraine Lake, Banff National Park, Alberta Canada
Arafiles Family Reunion, Grand Lake, Colorado


4th of July Fireworks over Grand Lake

Hike in Rocky Mountain National Park
43 mph wind and 3˚F at Summit with windchill

On Mt. Quandary Trail






Saturday, December 22, 2018

2018 Christmas Card and Year Highlights!!



2018 Christmas Card!! 2018 Highlights!

He did it! No he didn’t! North Korea has turned a new page. Or not. The Russians meddled. The Russians don’t care. You can always trust CNN. Or FOX -- depending on what you want to believe. Basically this year has been a lot like one of those Choose Your Adventure games… but more like “choose your own truth.” If you haven’t already made up you mind before looking at an issue, it’s confusing, isn’t it? Some are calling this a “post-truth” era. In spite of that dim assessment of our times, some things are true, even if the waters are muddied. Family matters. Health matters. Friendships matter. Spirituality matters. What we invest into each of those has an impact on us, those around us, and in turn, shapes the world.

This year, we’ve chosen to invest heavily in family, health, friendships, and spirituality. Though that journey has not always been smooth, we believe it’s worthwhile.

Christmas is called the Advent Season in many circles. We believe that story of the first advent: Immanuel (God with us). We believe the Bible hope/warning that there will be another advent, the second one being no small affair in a manger. In a world filled with post-truth sentiment, we hold the promise of second advent as just that: a promise. We find great hope and direction in that. We want the same for you.


The 2018 summary:
Gelerie is still working for her group in the Fort Collins doing 2/3 time. There will be a new hospital opening in 2019 just down the road from us, so she will spend some time there is our guess. Erik continues working in commercial photography and video. We’re both still heavily involved in managing both short- and long-term rentals.

Aubrey is a sophomore at Dayspring Christian Academy here in Greeley and enjoying it. She’s in honor choir, a NASA project class and was inducted into National Honor Society this fall. Aubrey got her braces off this year. Driving is the next milestone. She’s confident. Parents are nervous.

Finn is enjoying fourth grade at the local Adventist elementary school. He’s constantly busy with either Legos, duct tape, hot glue, popsicle sticks and rubber bands. Sometimes a combination of all those. Yes. Bare feet beware. He got braces on this year. He continues in piano lessons and is doing well.

Aubrey and Finn with Erik also participated in audio drama program Discovery Mountain Season 5 by Voice of Prophecy. It is similar to Adventures in Odyssey. Finn and Aubrey played two of the main characters and they really enjoyed it. You can listen here

In March Erik and Gelerie took their 25th anniversary trip (one year late) and went to New Zealand for two weeks. Kids stayed with Grandpa and Grandma Stenbakken. We had a great time. Fantastic sights. Delicious food. Lots of adventure. Tasty chocolate. Good weather. And lots of driving. The left-hand driving (aka “the wrong way”) was a challenge at first, but Erik got pretty good at it and had to adjust once we got home.

We spent a week on Sanibel Island, Fla., with Erik’s folks, his sister, and her whole family. Lots of beach walking, biking, and generally relaxing with family. It was a true vacation.

Erik finished a major 2 year+ (anti)pornography project this summer. It's called New Freedom to Love. You can see the work at newfreedomtolove.org.

We also spent a few weekends in the mountains in Grand Lake, Colorado. Although there were no fireworks due to fires this year, we still enjoyed 4th of July there with family and friends.

May you have a great new year filled with many blessings. Thank you for being a part of our lives. 2018 Photo Highlights below. Not pictured: about 300 days of boring, hard work. But you don't want to see that. So here's the fun stuff! 


Kayaking in the world's largest sea cave, Rikoriko Cave in Poor Knights Islands
Tutakaka Coast, North Island, New Zealand
Waipu Caves, North Island, New Zealand
Glow worms can be seen deeper in the cave with self-guided tour



A Room with A View
Sandstone House, Ruby Bay, South Island, New Zealand

Tutea Falls, the world's highest commercially rafted waterfall, 7 meter drop.
We are underneath the boat, breathing in the air pocket after flipped over

We Survived!!

Split Apple Rock, Abel-Tasman National Park

Abel-Tasman National Park

Inner tube adventure, Greymouth

Basket of Dreams, Queenstown Hill over looking Queenstown

We did an overnight cruise in Doubtful Sound, South Island, New Zealand 

Sanibel Island, Florida

Stenbakken/Welch Family

Cousins!



Recording for Discovery Mountain, Voice of Prophecy

July 4th in Grand Lake

New Freedom to Love Speakers